I mean, by definition it's gay if a guy's attracted to another guy - even though they're feminine. If they were actually trans (instead of just feminine), then it isn't gay because you're sleeping with a woman
Most people would consider it gay. What is and isn't gay is an arbitrary cultural thing without a rational basis, though, so you can ultimately identify however you like. There's tons of urban men who fuck other men on the DL and still consider themselves hetero. That's why scientific papers about the subject say "men who have sex with men" and not "homosexuals".
I've had this discussion with Kaminari before, it is more like a sexual preference than being gay/bisexual. It's like getting pegged, it's a sexual preference that can be deemed as gay. My answer? You're loosely straight. You're not gay/bisexual. I would even bet you're attracted to reddit femboys than actual femboys.
I mean, by definition something gay would be like, having romantic or sexual relations of someone of the same gender as you, unless you use the old definition that means happy, that way yeah, being pegged could be considered gay if it makes you so happy
Being attracted to a (cis)man who engages in traditionally feminine traits as a (cis)man is gay, it's just your sexually preferences are more narrow for men than women. Otherwise dating a tomboy would would also be considered "gay" (unless you're one of those weirdo Groyper/Tate bros that thinks any short of beating women makes you a "gay homo" whilst also obsessing over other mens' dick sizes for... completely straight reasons).
You're allowed to not be locked in one sexuality and be attracted to whoever you're attracted to, no one (hopefully) is stopping you.
You're making rational deductions about something that isn't, though. Whether something is "gay" is totally arbitrary and cultural. Double standards are why lesbian porn is considered hetero.
Side note: why is that whenever I have these genuine dialogues that make me highlight my beliefs, it's always with your ass. That's like debating the ethics of casinos existing with Mao, can't you be cartoonishly evil or some shit
I can't stop you, but it's just a pain when I can't compartmentalize your comments as either Epstein's ghost's anon account or obvious bully pulpit material.
I'd disagree to an extent. The concept of what is "gay" to someone will obviously vary from person to person, but there's still the objective fact that somewhere along the line that being attracted to a member of the same gender is gay.
You can argue that it's the culture that ultimately defines what is or isn't gay for that contemporary period, but I'd chalk that up to the intergenerational lie that women are naturally inferior to men, and resembling them in an fashion (such as liking men as a man) make you inferior by association. A lie propped up the ruling feudal lords to distract from how they are the problem and serfs who are too stupid to realize said lie and too insecure in their own personhood to the point where they also perpetuate said lie to form their own mini-hierarchy against people in the same rung as them.
Ultimately, I still think being attracted to anyone who identifies as the same gender as you is gay, but it's still stupid to care whether you are or aren't gay, or to care about fitting neatly in one sexuality "box."
Being attracted to femininity doesn't really makes you not be gay, a femboy is still ya know, a boy, by the definition it is gay because it would still be a guy
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I mean, by definition it's gay if a guy's attracted to another guy - even though they're feminine. If they were actually trans (instead of just feminine), then it isn't gay because you're sleeping with a woman
A hole is a hole, if a polish femboy is asking for a cock up his ass I aint gonna turn him down. No kissing tho
Its not gay if you have socks on
Yeah, looong pink ones to be specific
Salmon pink though
None of that neon hot pink stuff thats trying too hard
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just don't touch dicks
A feminine man is still a man. Doesn't make them less of a man.
But It's only gay if balls touch.
It ain't gay if they're hot
I like the way you're thinking
Most people would consider it gay. What is and isn't gay is an arbitrary cultural thing without a rational basis, though, so you can ultimately identify however you like. There's tons of urban men who fuck other men on the DL and still consider themselves hetero. That's why scientific papers about the subject say "men who have sex with men" and not "homosexuals".
I've had this discussion with Kaminari before, it is more like a sexual preference than being gay/bisexual. It's like getting pegged, it's a sexual preference that can be deemed as gay. My answer? You're loosely straight. You're not gay/bisexual. I would even bet you're attracted to reddit femboys than actual femboys.
How tf is being pegged considered gay? You're having sex with a woman
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I mean, by definition something gay would be like, having romantic or sexual relations of someone of the same gender as you, unless you use the old definition that means happy, that way yeah, being pegged could be considered gay if it makes you so happy
I mean some men think that getting your asshole touched by somebody else is already gay... which doesn't make that much sense
Ong, Sems, haiii.
But yeah, maybe they're just afraid that they'll like it, so they have to put this wall to protect their ego or wtvr
Insecure straight guys thinking that just cause gay men sodomize each other, they think its gay for a guy to be sodomized
Doesn't matter, it's hot.
Your so right
On technicality K.C thee 3rd:
(As long as you get your money-shot, why care if it's gae)
Being attracted to a (cis)man who engages in traditionally feminine traits as a (cis)man is gay, it's just your sexually preferences are more narrow for men than women. Otherwise dating a tomboy would would also be considered "gay" (unless you're one of those weirdo Groyper/Tate bros that thinks any short of beating women makes you a "gay homo" whilst also obsessing over other mens' dick sizes for... completely straight reasons).
You're allowed to not be locked in one sexuality and be attracted to whoever you're attracted to, no one (hopefully) is stopping you.
You're making rational deductions about something that isn't, though. Whether something is "gay" is totally arbitrary and cultural. Double standards are why lesbian porn is considered hetero.
Side note: why is that whenever I have these genuine dialogues that make me highlight my beliefs, it's always with your ass. That's like debating the ethics of casinos existing with Mao, can't you be cartoonishly evil or some shit
Well, you can only goon so many hours of the day, you know? Would you like me to stop replying to you?
I can't stop you, but it's just a pain when I can't compartmentalize your comments as either Epstein's ghost's anon account or obvious bully pulpit material.
I'd disagree to an extent. The concept of what is "gay" to someone will obviously vary from person to person, but there's still the objective fact that somewhere along the line that being attracted to a member of the same gender is gay.
You can argue that it's the culture that ultimately defines what is or isn't gay for that contemporary period, but I'd chalk that up to the intergenerational lie that women are naturally inferior to men, and resembling them in an fashion (such as liking men as a man) make you inferior by association. A lie propped up the ruling feudal lords to distract from how they are the problem and serfs who are too stupid to realize said lie and too insecure in their own personhood to the point where they also perpetuate said lie to form their own mini-hierarchy against people in the same rung as them.
Ultimately, I still think being attracted to anyone who identifies as the same gender as you is gay, but it's still stupid to care whether you are or aren't gay, or to care about fitting neatly in one sexuality "box."
You always spit the most faxx
Being attracted to femininity doesn't really makes you not be gay, a femboy is still ya know, a boy, by the definition it is gay because it would still be a guy
IDK how anyone reasonable could argue its straight
Mostly people who don't touch grass and or are afraid of being gay or bi
Nah, a good amount of straight people-especially dudes- are afraid of being gay in the same vein as being afraid of being vulnerable
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